Read this book, titled - I kissed Dating Goodbye. A very good book, and books that appeals to me must be superb before I can finish them. Love the book so much as i indulge in the book, during bus rides to sch, lesson breaks, lunch and even my bus rides home which i always used for sleeping.
Made me think alot about what i think about what dating really means.
I love this phrase, "Intimacy is the reward of commitment".After reading half of the book. I grew to knew where and what have went wrong in the past. Now with a "lesson" in hand, I can view dating in a different perspective.
Here's a part that really makes alot of sence:
"We tend to build up that person in our imaginations as the perfect person, We think we'd be happy forever if that person would return our affections. Of course, we can onli sustain our silly crush becasue we've substituted fantasy from all the information we lack about the person. As soon as we get to know that person's true identity and discover that our "perfect" person is human like everyone else. Our dreams fades and we move on to a new crush"
This is very right, but a wrong practice.